The Twenty Minute VC (20VC): Venture Capital | Startup Funding | The Pitch
01:00:27 · Matteo Franceschetti, Harry Stebbings
[01:00:27] S0: I don't think if a kid is born now, by the time they are 20 years old, they will ever work. By then, I think AI will be at a point where humans don't work. They will do activities, social activities, even to help other humans. What will we do then? This is what we need to discover. I also have this pyramid of life, about the importance of life, and to me it's a pyramid. At the bottom, you have health, and then you have relationship, and then you have purpose. I think this is what drives happiness. So the first thing you need to nail in your life is to be healthy, because if you are unhealthy, almost nothing else matters, right? If you have a cancer and you risk to die in the next two or three months, you can't be Once health is on track, you focus on relationship. It doesn't matter what kind of relationship. It could be a partner, it could be your family, it could be your friends. But you need to have a relationship with other people, right? If you are extremely rich and healthy but completely alone and nobody wants you, you can't be happy. The third is purpose. And purpose is extremely important, right? So once you're healthy, once you have great relationship, you need to have a purpose on your life. You need to work towards something. And it doesn't need to be financially related. It could be anything that you really enjoy, but you need to have a purpose. And I think that is the part that we need to pay attention to. [01:01:38] S1: What would you advise someone asking whether they should go to university today?
01:01:38 · Harry Stebbings, Matteo Franceschetti
[01:01:38] S1: What would you advise someone asking whether they should go to university today? [01:01:42] S0: No. 100% no. It's useless. If you wanna have social activities, there's the social part, but I'm just talking in a very pragmatic way. If they want to have a career, particularly in Silicon Valley, as entrepreneurs, I think it's totally useless. [01:01:55] S1: Do you believe in universal basic income? [01:01:58] S0: I think it will have to happen, And I think probably as companies will get more efficient and probably they will need less people working for them, probably they will get taxed more to make sure that we can distribute universal income to everybody. [01:02:11] S1: Do you think Bill Gates' suggestion was right that we should tax agent usage and token usage? [01:02:16] S0: The bottom line of a lot of companies will improve meaningfully over the next three, four, five, ten years, and so I just think we will need to readjust part of that bottom line to be distributed to people so everybody can have comfortable life. [01:02:30] S1: Would you let your children use social media? [01:02:32] S0: That is a good question. I don't have an answer yet, but at some point, I will have to figure it out. [01:02:38] S1: What do you not know yet about parenting that you are wanting to know?
01:02:38 · Harry Stebbings, Matteo Franceschetti
[01:02:38] S1: What do you not know yet about parenting that you are wanting to know? [01:02:42] S0: Well, tell you something that I'm actually trying to do that could be slightly different. With AgeLeap, we are lucky that we work with a lot of people that have been successful in sport, but it could be ballerinas, it could be chess players, or it could be even great businessmen. I'm trying to talk to all their dads, and I wanted to... I want to learn from their dads what they did, what they thought it worked and didn't work in how they raised their kids, to then learn how I can be a dad one day. What did you learn? Oh, I'm starting now to do my due diligence and interviews. [01:03:15] S1: God, that would be a fascinating exercise. [01:03:17] S0: It's amazing, right? Because nobody thinks about it doesn't need to be the dad, it could be the mom. I just want to learn what do they think they did right or wrong for their kids to be successful. And to me, successful could be even a doctor. Right? I'm not talking about athletes or sports. But I wanna learn from people that just went through that, and I'm sure they, yeah, they made mistakes.
01:03:17 · Matteo Franceschetti, Harry Stebbings
[01:03:17] S0: It's amazing, right? Because nobody thinks about it doesn't need to be the dad, it could be the mom. I just want to learn what do they think they did right or wrong for their kids to be successful. And to me, successful could be even a doctor. Right? I'm not talking about athletes or sports. But I wanna learn from people that just went through that, and I'm sure they, yeah, they made mistakes. [01:03:35] S1: You know what my mother did? She dropped an image of, like, perfection or morality or goodness that most parents have. You know, you kind of view your parents as, like, good and always well behaved and generally... Will talk to me in-depth about all of her fuck ups and the lessons that she learned, things that you really wouldn't talk to your child about. But in the depths of mistakes, you have lessons. And how do I learn from her fuck ups? Do you know what I mean? Yep. But most would be like, no. That was a dark episode of my life that I'm not going back to. That I really appreciate in her.
01:03:35 · Harry Stebbings, Matteo Franceschetti
[01:03:35] S1: You know what my mother did? She dropped an image of, like, perfection or morality or goodness that most parents have. You know, you kind of view your parents as, like, good and always well behaved and generally... Will talk to me in-depth about all of her fuck ups and the lessons that she learned, things that you really wouldn't talk to your child about. But in the depths of mistakes, you have lessons. And how do I learn from her fuck ups? Do you know what I mean? Yep. But most would be like, no. That was a dark episode of my life that I'm not going back to. That I really appreciate in her. [01:04:08] S0: Yeah. You made me think of this thing. I don't remember the exact words, but I think there is Tony Robbins saying that a lot of people that are very driven, they are always trying to please someone since when they were kids, and I think it's one of their parents. He says, You're always trying to please one of your parents, or maybe, you know, it might be slightly different based on childhood. So that is another thing. Particularly when I hire Chief of Staffs, I always make them these questions, and I say, You don't have to answer to me, but if you feel comfortable, think about that. [01:04:34] S1: Do you want hear something even more specific that everyone gets angry at me for? But honestly, I don't really care anymore. It's actually much more specific than that. And I've spent a huge amount of time studying it. [01:04:44] S0: Oh,
01:04:44 · Matteo Franceschetti, Harry Stebbings
[01:04:44] S0: Oh, [01:04:44] S1: really? Which is actually most often, it is boys, and it is boys' relationships with their fathers. And it is a broken relationship with their father where they're trying to prove to them that they can be something they're worthy. And that is how it most often manifests. Very rare is it, and needs to do with mother. [01:05:00] S0: Yeah, it makes sense. Really interesting. [01:05:03] S1: Do you have a relationship with your father? [01:05:04] S0: Yeah. He died, but I had a relationship. But I still think he set the bar, and part of what drives me is also probably, if I had to guess, something that, you know, almost to meet that bar, but I don't know. [01:05:16] S1: Did he see Eight Sleep become successful?