The Prof G Pod with Scott Galloway
00:38:27 · David Brooks
And I'm hoping under challenge from Trump and the rest of them that they'll rediscover their mission and find out our job is really to form people and to create citizens and to be civic institutions that bind society across difference and across class difference. And that would be a noble mission and a a real recovery for American universities.
00:38:48 · Scott Galloway
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00:41:11 · Scott Galloway
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00:43:01 · David Brooks
[00:43:01] S2: Yeah. Well, I just took a hike with Richard two days ago, so he's a very close friend of mine. I do think one of the beautiful things Richard has accomplished is to make sure this is not a zero sum game. And he emphasized this over and over again that what's good for males is not bad for females. Females. And that should be obvious, but Richard struggled to get the pub... Book published years ago because a lot of people had this zero sum thinking in their head. And I think the the crisis of masculinity is in part a system, as Richard says, where the schools are not designed for boys. But I think it's it's primarily that loss of purpose, that loss of sense that how do I express... There's a British philosopher named Shirley Robin Letwin who wrote a book about the vigorous virtues that we wanna be... We want people who are loyal to friends, tough on foes, dynamic, risk taking, courageous, brave. And these virtues, some of these virtues have been shoved aside in the effort to create a more compassionate society, and that's a beautiful effort. But people wanna be courageous. They wanna do things on behalf of some moral ideal that requires courage, force, strength, and frankly, self mastery. And I look at all the podcasters who are now like gigantic buff ripped guys, and they look like they swallowed a weight machine. And... But and... But that's discipline. It's something you can relate to, and I'm not a buff guy by any means, but you see why young men want that because it gives them something that's hard. And it fills the urge to self improvement. And we went a few decades by saying the things a lot of guys want, not all guys, obviously, those things are toxic or those things are bad or those things are aggressive and destructive. But they're they're aggressive and destructive only when used to serve evil ends. But to serve noble ends, the idea of self improvement, the idea of being aggressive, the idea of being strong, is something, we should celebrate and give people avenues toward. And just, you know, I hope I'm not violating privacy, but Richard has a a tradition of taking a camping trip on New Year's Eve, and it can get cold in that 10, nine degrees. And that's what... That's the kind of love of adventure that not only boys want. Girls want that too. And we...
00:45:28 · David Brooks, Scott Galloway
We've we've reduced the ways, young people can experience adventure, in part because of all the helicopter parenting. [00:45:36] S0: You talk about things around community and comity of man and care for your neighbors. I don't hear you talk about your own family a lot. And to the extent you're comfortable, I'd just be very interested to know we have a lot of young men who listen, a lot of new dads, a lot of new husbands. Curious, know, we're... Look, we're on the back nine, right? And hopefully we've learned some stuff that we can impart on other people, or share our mistakes so other people don't make the same ones. What advice would you have for new dads? And what have you learned about being a dad?
00:46:10 · David Brooks
[00:46:10] S2: Yeah. Well, I was like a lot of guys. I had trouble expressing my emotions. I think I felt emotions, but there was no highway between my heart and my mouth, so I didn't know how to talk about them. And I had a natural fear of them, I guess. And there's a moment that represents the way I used to be to myself. I I love baseball. I go to a of baseball games. I've never caught caught a foul ball. And I'm in Baltimore with my youngest son, and the batter loses control of the bat, and it flies into the stands and lands in my lap. And a normal human being, like, getting a bat is a thousand times better than getting a ball. A normal human being is waving his trophy in the air, my bat, and I'm high fiving everybody and getting on the jumbo time. I'm hugging people. I took the bat and just put it on the ground and just sat there. And I look back on that guy, and I see show a little moral joy. Show a little joy. Like, that's a great event. You should be celebrating in public, but I was so inhibited that I didn't know how to be emotionally open in public. And I went through a hard time after that. I went through divorce. My kids left for school, and I was living in a little apartment. I was lonely and fiercely lonely. And there's a saying that when you're in those hard times in your life, you can be either be broken or broken open. And if you're broken, you turn hard, you turn into a lobster shell, and nothing can touch you. But if you're broken open, you get even more vulnerable, and you stay in the pain to learn what it has to teach you. And what my pain had to teach me was that I was misleading my life by not living from the depths of myself, but living from the shallows. It was very easy for me to use glibness and reason to do fine in life without confronting the spiritual and in some