Lenny's Podcast: Product | Career | Growth
01:21:18 · Jessica Fain, Lenny Rachitsky
[01:21:18] S0: I think that one thing I'm really curious about, you were talking about human brain chemistry, is just how we can protect our brains from overwhelm. The speed of ideas, change, building is... We are dis-evolved for this pace of life. We were evolved... I love this book, Pachinko, that tells the history of a Korean family over several generations. And in one of the generations sort of in the 1600s, 1700s, there are two wives that every day cook breakfast then go to the market, buy rice, buy fish, buy vegetables, go home, cook the rice, cook the fish, serve dinner, clean up dinner. That's the day. And for the vast majority of human history, that was kind of our day. And the mental load that we are asking of our brains right now is staggering. And so I think one of the ways that we actually have to use AI and agents is to help our brains be most effective, is to clear out distraction, to point out the most important things, to... And I think this is where people really need to make some tough decisions. How much can we really focus on and how do we allow for that focus in the ways that are hopefully good for humanity? [01:22:45] S1: What a time to be alive, Jessica. Holy... Oh my God. Before we get to our very exciting lightning ground, is there anything else that you wanted to share? Anything else you want to double down on?
01:22:58 · Jessica Fain
[01:22:58] S0: One thing I think that I'll say is I'm a people person. I love in-person collaboration and I love talking ideas through and whiteboard sessions. I'm a two wing three. If there are any other Enneagram fans out there, it's a mix of the people person, the sort of bringing the communal thinker with the achiever. That is my personality type. I think that sometimes I can give this kind of advice and people say, "Oh, well, Jess, you're good with people," or, "You kind of understand these things." I think that something that has taken me a while in my career is how to be authentic to myself in influence, in relationships, in trust building. And I don't think that it's one personality type or another. I think that you could be shy and introverted or super data-oriented and technical. I think all types of personalities can, in their own authentic way, communicate with the people around them to build trust, to build influence in the way that feels true to them. I think when I was younger in my career and I was starting out as a PM, I got a lot of feedback of, "Oh, Jess, how do you show up more like a man would, show up more aggressively, show up more decisively?" And I think there were some good nuggets in there, but I think it took me a while to feel like, hey, who I am and how I show up is actually my superpower that I can double down on, and I don't need to be like someone else. What I need to do is think about what I want to accomplish and how I want to grow and do that in a way that is true to me.
01:24:40 · Lenny Rachitsky, Jessica Fain
[01:24:40] S1: I could not agree more with that. I've shared very similar sentiment on the pod a few times, just like you can accomplish the same things other people can through your own strengths. You don't have to do it the way they're doing it. [01:24:52] S0: Exactly. [01:24:52] S1: I so agree. A beautiful way to end that. And with that, we have reached our very exciting lightning round. I've got five questions for you. Are you ready? [01:25:01] S0: I'm ready. I'm so excited. [01:25:02] S1: What are two or three books that you find yourself recommending most to other people?
01:25:02 · Lenny Rachitsky, Jessica Fain
[01:25:02] S1: What are two or three books that you find yourself recommending most to other people? [01:25:06] S0: I think there's a genre of book I've really fallen in love with. I mentioned Pachinko before. I love historical fiction because it really gives me access into worlds that I don't know. I can't remember who talks about windows and mirrors. Books are windows or mirrors for us. And historical fiction, especially about places where I'm less familiar with that history, is really a window into someone else's experience. And there's a particular type of historical fiction that I've just loved, which is multi-generational historical fiction. Pachinko does this with a family in Korea over generations and moving to Japan. There's a book called Homegoing, which is about the West Coast of Africa and the impact of the slave trade and the ongoing life in Africa from two split parts of the family. History of Burning is a book that tells a story of Indian indentured servants that were brought to Uganda to build the British railroad there and just parts of history that I was so much less familiar with and really treasure that sort of window into a different world. No, I haven't. [01:26:25] S1: I think. I might be getting it wrong, but it's called Overstory, which is a concept of when you have a big tree, like the overstory is the branches that kind of sit on top, that kind of create a shade. [01:26:37] S0: Oh, that's so beautiful. [01:26:37] S1: I think that's the book I'm thinking about, and it's the story of a family over many generations and around a tree.
01:26:37 · Lenny Rachitsky, Jessica Fain
[01:26:37] S1: I think that's the book I'm thinking about, and it's the story of a family over many generations and around a tree. [01:26:42] S0: Oh, great. Now I have to pick that up. [01:26:45] S1: Yeah. It's popular. Okay. If it's the one I'm thinking about, I think you're going to love it. [01:26:47] S0: Okay, great. I'll [inaudible 01:26:48]. [01:26:49] S1: Favorite recent movie or TV show you've really enjoyed? [01:26:51] S0: Again, this is another window. I have been obsessively watching The Pitt, which is probably a lame answer. I wonder if anyone else has given you that so far, but it's given me such a vantage point and a view into the incredibly difficult work that emergency healthcare workers do and the stresses and the system and the brokenness that they operate under, but also the extreme care and love that they bring to their work and has just given me so much admiration. [01:27:22] S1: It is trending on this podcast and I'm watching it as well. [01:27:25] S0: It's really good. [01:27:26] S1: It is really good. Okay. Favorite product you recently discovered that you really love. [01:27:32] S0: Okay. I bought my husband a towel warmer, it was like 35 bucks on Amazon, and it has led to so much joy in our household. Just getting out of the shower to a warm towel is so great. It's a really fun addition to the family, so highly recommend that. It's just a cheap and easy way to brighten your day a little bit. [01:27:57] S1: I want one. That sounds amazing. Does it sit on top of an existing towel rack or is it a separate thing that you...
01:27:57 · Lenny Rachitsky, Jessica Fain
[01:27:57] S1: I want one. That sounds amazing. Does it sit on top of an existing towel rack or is it a separate thing that you... [01:28:02] S0: It's a separate thing. It's sort of like a basket that you put the towel in, you could put it in for half an hour, an hour, set it on a timer. It's so cool. [01:28:10] S1: Okay. I love this idea. Never been mentioned before. [01:28:13] S0: But I think more in the tech vein of products I've loved, I've been a loyal user of Casa, which I believe you tweeted about as well as a Casa user. [01:28:24] S1: Yes. I love Casa. [01:28:25] S0: Casa comes in and they have this idea of what if everyone had a household assistant? And so they come in, they take stock of every paint color, every appliance, every light bulb, and anytime something breaks or you need something repaired, you can just say, "I need new light bulbs for this room," and they'll immediately send you them from Amazon. "I need a new dishwasher, ours broke," and they'll send you three options that fit your space and are good quality. They also pick up your packages every Friday and your donations. So great. And they're just the nicest people. So I'm really excited to see them thrive. [01:29:02] S1: I love that pick. I was looking up their domain name, getcasa.com. [01:29:05] S0: Get Casa. [01:29:06] S1: And I think they're only in the Bay Area right now and I think they're expanding into LA right now. [01:29:09] S0: Expanding into LA. Yep.