Roman Krznaric on living for people you will never meet
This episode is about being a good ancestor at the scale of one life. Roman Krznaric argues that legacy should be measured by what you leave future strangers, not by monuments or family property, and that the duty becomes real when you extend care from the people you love to the whole living world they depend on. He says the practice makes people happier because humans are relational creatures, not isolated individuals.
Takeaways
- Legacy should serve future strangers, not ego. Krznaric separates egoistic legacies, such as a Russian oligarch wanting a stadium named after him, and family legacies of property, culture and religion from a transcendental legacy left for future strangers. Only the last asks what world those strangers inherit.
- The Human Layers exercise makes the future personal. Picture a young person you love, then them 30 years older, then at 90 giving a speech about your legacy. Stadlen ran it on his daughter Skye, nearly five, who would be 35.
- One child's future depends on all life. Krznaric did the exercise when his daughter Siri was 10 and realised she could be alive in 2100. Caring about her life means caring about the web of relationships and the living world she depends on.
- Being remembered is a weak motivator. Scaramucci's test of naming four great-grandparents left Stadlen with one. Krznaric wants his books read in a century but cares more that his ideas resonate than that his name survives, and notes Mexico keeps ancestors present in a way the West does not.
- Good ancestry is a practice, not a sentiment. Krznaric asks morning and night what he can do, or did do, to be a good ancestor, a habit like brushing his teeth. He says the practice makes people happier because humans are relational, citing Aristotle on humans being as gregarious as bees.
Krznaric's playbook for ordinary life
- He and his partner gave their votes to their twins, then 11, in the 2019 UK election, because adults were deciding the children's future while the children had no say.
- An empty chair represents future generations in discussions of strategy or the future, a device used in nearly 200 municipalities and cities across Quebec.
- The family has no car. They use a local car club, a social enterprise hiring cars by the hour, and mostly cycle.
- The average phone is thrown away after less than three years and uses half the elements in the periodic table, so he buys secondhand devices.
- Patagonia puts shares in a trust for the earth rather than for short-term shareholders, an option any company, person or family can copy.